Yesterday after I watched this video, part of this conference talk by Elder Larry Y. Wilson was brought back to my remembrance.
"In raising our family, we decided that our most important goal would be to help our children establish their own connection to heaven. We knew that ultimately they would need to depend on the Lord, not on us. Brigham Young said, “Were I to draw a distinction in all the duties that are required of the children of men, … I would place first and foremost the duty of seeking unto the Lord our God until we open the path of communication from heaven to earth—from God to our own souls.”7
What could be more important to teach my kids than to teach them to establish their own connection to Heaven?